Infidelity

“To cheat oneself out of love is the most terrible deception; it is an eternal loss for which there is no reparation, either in time or in eternity”- Soren Kierkegaard

Mistakes are again an integral part of life, the mistakes you make and then the mistakes that others make unto you. I’ve written about my mistakes a countless times today I’ll discuss the later which the mistakes people make to basically screw you, there isn’t a revelation or intense philosophy in what I’m about to say just pure common sense. I mentioned somewhere in my earlier blogs that psychology is one of the most under-rated sciences of our time. I was very compelled to name this blog Betrayal Part 3, but that would just be too many betrayals for one week don’t you think?

We hear Hollywood couples have affairs some make sense some really don’t. Same happens in our society, the general consensus is to speed up the evolutionary process by finding high quality mates. But is that the only reason why people cheat?? Psychologist believe that men cheat primarily by the lure of sex (stating the obvious I tell you), while women do so because of emotional neglect and emotional intimacy. Yes, men are generally considered the ones who are more likely to commit adultery but study shows, I love how the west comes up with such awesome studies, that since now women are economically independent its easier for them to cheat because they aren’t dependent on their husbands or partners for that matter. What a load of crap, men women have been cheating since the dawn of time, most people nowadays are used to being cheated on by their partners thus we get expert articles like 10 Signs of a Cheating Spouse.

Most men well are affected severely by the whole ordeal, “Men are generally more affected by stressful reactions and perceive cheating as something more directed to him and his manhood, rather than to the relationship itself”, again I disagree I mean the guy could be an underwear model and he can still be cheated on, you know how people some people say less is more, some idiots actually believe that. Men are fools for emotions, and women use that to their advantage, like the nuclear bomb women have is this relationship psychological warfare ...tears. it’s like the Ganges river that washes away all sins, but what they fail to realize that the sacred river now is to polluted to wash away anything leave alone your sins. This is how the world has functioned for centuries, bigger countries have used smaller countires as prostitutes. You think marriage is the solution? What is marriage but prostitution to one man instead of many?