Infidelity

“To cheat oneself out of love is the most terrible deception; it is an eternal loss for which there is no reparation, either in time or in eternity”- Soren Kierkegaard

Mistakes are again an integral part of life, the mistakes you make and then the mistakes that others make unto you. I’ve written about my mistakes a countless times today I’ll discuss the later which the mistakes people make to basically screw you, there isn’t a revelation or intense philosophy in what I’m about to say just pure common sense. I mentioned somewhere in my earlier blogs that psychology is one of the most under-rated sciences of our time. I was very compelled to name this blog Betrayal Part 3, but that would just be too many betrayals for one week don’t you think?

We hear Hollywood couples have affairs some make sense some really don’t. Same happens in our society, the general consensus is to speed up the evolutionary process by finding high quality mates. But is that the only reason why people cheat?? Psychologist believe that men cheat primarily by the lure of sex (stating the obvious I tell you), while women do so because of emotional neglect and emotional intimacy. Yes, men are generally considered the ones who are more likely to commit adultery but study shows, I love how the west comes up with such awesome studies, that since now women are economically independent its easier for them to cheat because they aren’t dependent on their husbands or partners for that matter. What a load of crap, men women have been cheating since the dawn of time, most people nowadays are used to being cheated on by their partners thus we get expert articles like 10 Signs of a Cheating Spouse.

Most men well are affected severely by the whole ordeal, “Men are generally more affected by stressful reactions and perceive cheating as something more directed to him and his manhood, rather than to the relationship itself”, again I disagree I mean the guy could be an underwear model and he can still be cheated on, you know how people some people say less is more, some idiots actually believe that. Men are fools for emotions, and women use that to their advantage, like the nuclear bomb women have is this relationship psychological warfare ...tears. it’s like the Ganges river that washes away all sins, but what they fail to realize that the sacred river now is to polluted to wash away anything leave alone your sins. This is how the world has functioned for centuries, bigger countries have used smaller countires as prostitutes. You think marriage is the solution? What is marriage but prostitution to one man instead of many?

A brief Introduction to Sin…

This blog marks the beginning of a new direction I wish to take with my blogs, concepts play an important part in our lives on which we base most of our decisions. Our decisions unfortunately don’t revolve around how to better ourselves, or how we should do the right thing but how to stay away from sin how we can keep ourselves out of the burning fires of hell. But is that the right way to live? Should we use prayer as tool to push us into further denial that there is hope? Look at the world around you, it’s visibly crumbling, it’s not the end but don’t you feel is quite darn close.

People have been immoral, shiftless, self-gratifying and good for nothings. But for ages now man has found it difficult to set conceptual foundations for their spiritual inadequacies. The challenge is still a daunting one the concept should be substantial enough to include the vast range of disgusting behavior and on the other hand be simple and memorable enough to inspire guilt in the lost illiterate youth. By sinning man injures himself in his being; for he falls from what he ought to be. As a result of this fall there exist the sufferings which he must bear, such as remorse in the present life, and the sufferings which God has established in the life to come for those who violate the laws laid down by His will.

What you need to understand and avoid, when you sin you do it because you want to. The devil made me do it," is a fallacy. The only thing that Satan can do is tempt you in order to draw out the lusts that are already resident within your wicked human heart. Every time you sin, you’re faced with a decision, you’re not forced into it, and the battle is with yourself. Your own lust leads you to sin. Nobody is perfect, but we can’t ignore visible wrong, upholding religion means you uphold its every bit of it. It is for this reason Spirituality should be attained before embarking on quest for God through religion. Stay tuned for the Seven Part Series on the Deadly Sins….

“Nothing makes one so vain as being told one is a sinner. Conscience makes egotists of us all.”